We all have been at a point in our life when we’ve wanted to be recognized. Too often, I have heard stories about people giving up or throwing in the towel. And a lot of those times, it was because they weren’t recognized or someone didn’t appreciate their work or effort.

I have a daughter who recently turned four and another daughter who is two. Lately, I have noticed them saying four words more often than before and those words are, “Look at me, Mommy!” My two year old says those words when she wants me to see her lifting one foot and balancing on the other,  when she “draws” something (in toddler world, scribbling), or when she’s eating veggies and fruits (because her older sister does not). My four year old says those exact same words when she is cleaning something up or when she hears me compliment her younger sister (the competition is ongoing). Both these girls desire to be noticed or recognized whenever they accomplish something.

To us as parents or adults, it may seem silly for a child to think that eating fruits or veggies is an accomplishment but to them, it could mean the world when they are praised for something they do. When they are recognized, they feel like someone cares. They know that someone loves and appreciates them.

I work with children on a weekly basis at church who come from broken homes or homes that lack love and therefore, these children will do things just to get attention, even if it will get them in trouble. And some ministry workers have to be careful not to just shun them away but understand them and see that they may not come from an environment that glorifies God or even acknowledge who God is. These children, just like children who grow up in church must be shown the same love – the love of Jesus; it’s unconditional and it’s overflowing.

When thinking about this monthly word focus, three different types of people come to mind. Although they are quite different, I encourage you to read to the end to understand how they tie in with the monthly word focus of RECOGNITION.



As someone who is in ministry, we tend to do many things, even things that aren’t necessarily our field of interest. We understand the concept of “Be Available” or “Be Willing” or “Have a servant’s heart.” We acknowledge that serving the Lord isn’t something the majority would do. In fact, servants of Christ are part of the minority and many times go on without recognition. Sadly, there are Christians who have quit because they weren’t recognized. What those people failed to understand was serving Christ is a performance with One audience and that audience is the Lord Jesus Christ. It is not the pastor nor those whom you are serving, but Christ alone. A recognizable person is not the one who necessarily knows it all but the one who has a sincere heart to serve.  Ephesians 6:7 reminds us, “With good will, doing service as to the Lord, and not to men;”


Not everyone will become a CEO of a company nor be one to go down into the Guinness Book of Records. You may not be someone famous but YOU CAN BE A SERVANT. And God delights in servanthood. If you feel like you have no talents or that you don’t excel in anything, remember that you can serve and most definitely excel in it.



I have seen and heard of a good number of people, specifically Christians who  didn’t finish their race. Somehow, they stumbled and fell and chose not to get back up. I have heard stories of people who were ruined by others and instead of being a victor, they became a victim to their circumstances or trials. Someone told me, “Hurt people, hurt people.” How true is this! Many times when we’re hurt, we resort to making sure that others also experience hurt. Can I share with you something that you may not expect? Yes, God surely delights and recognizes the person with a heart to serve but God sees you too.

God sees the broken pieces of your life.

He sees the hurt that you’ve experienced.

He knows what it feels like to be forsaken, to be spat upon, to have His father turn his back on Him because His father loved YOU so much that He would sacrifice HIS ONLY BEGOTTEN SON so that you, as broken and ruined as you may be, can find salvation – so that you, can find comfort and refuge.

Do you ever feel like you’re too bad for God to save; that you have done so much wrong in your life that God for sure couldn’t save you? Well Friend, Jesus is no respecter of persons. Your background, your failures, and your ruined life are nothing compared to how much He loves you. He is ready and willing to save all those that come to Him.

“There is no problem too big
God cannot solve it
There is no mountain too tall
God cannot move it

There is no storm too dark
God cannot calm it
There is no sorrow too deep
He cannot soothe it”


The eyes of the LORD


Lastly, we’ve come to the Redeemed person. If you cannot relate to someone who is RECOGNIZED or someone who is RUINED,  you can fall under the category of REDEEMED, starting today.

Every single person who does not know Christ as Saviour is in bondage to sin and the only way that you can be free is through the blood of Jesus Christ. As surprising as this may sound to some of you, it is true. There is nothing we can do (by our own strength, power, knowledge, or being) to redeem ourselves. We can be an advocate for positive living or being a good person but neither of these comes close to redeeming you. Every person on this earth is redeemable because of Jesus but not every one is redeemed.

“Redeemed, how I love to proclaim it, Redeemed by the BLOOD OF THE LAMB.

Redeemed through His infinite mercy, His child and forever I am.”

Each person has their share of trials and each person will experience happiness at some point in their life. But each person will also have a time when their life will end, when they will give an account for how they lived their life. This will be a time when you will be seen as someone who was redeemed or someone who chose not to be redeemed. The  choice is up to you. However, I just want to remind you that you can be the most “ruined” person or the most “recognizable” person, but at the end of your life, can you be known as a “redeemed” person?


Until Next Time,

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Satisfaction in Your Season of Life


Spring is here and many are already getting their children’s Easter Baskets ready. I’ll be honest, we haven’t done Easter baskets for our kids but the more I think about it, I figured that this would be a great opportunity for me to share the Gospel with my girls. They may still seem young but I am praying that we can plant these seeds at a young age and see those seeds come to fruition.


For the month of March, I wanted to focus on one word – SATISFACTION. It’s easy to be satisfied when everything is going well – our health, our finances, our relationships, our jobs, etc. But all of us go through different seasons of life. I may be having the most wonderful season while someone else is going through the most difficult season.  I may be on the mountaintop while another is in the valley. Realizing this truth makes me want to be more considerate and thoughtful of other people.

One can be so joyful on the outside but deep down, they are struggling. Today, I want to talk about having satisfaction in THE SEASON THAT YOU ARE CURRENTLY IN.


We live in a world and society that is constantly bombarding us with MORE – MORE possessions, MORE friends, MORE followers (for all my social media peeps), MORE money, MORE, MORE MORE!

“Our desire for constantly wanting more TEMPORAL things proves our discontentment and dissatisfaction for what we’ve already been blessed with.”

Philippians 4:11 – “Not that I speak in respect of want: for I have learned, in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content.”

1 Timothy 6:6 – “But godliness with contentment is great gain.”


If we desired MORE of eternal things, imagine how different our lives would be. Instead of wanting MORE of what meets our earthly satisfactions, we should desire to want more of what meets our heavenly satisfactions.

Colossians 3:2 – “ Set your affection on things above, not on things on the earth.”

Contentment or satisfaction in the Savior doesn’t come easily. I believe you have to “work” at it and by “work” I mean you have to discipline yourself.

Discipline yourself to say “NO”

Discipline yourself to be in God’s Word daily

Discipline yourself to have a fervent prayer life

Discipline yourself to serve God faithfully

Discipline yourself to serve others willingly

Discipline yourself to give thanks daily


We are all going through different seasons of life. Below, you will see some reminders for the Season of Life you are currently in. These are just a few that have helped me as a Teen, Young Adult, and now as a Wife and Mother. Have I perfected them? Definitely not.  Most, if not all,  are things I am still working on but I hope they can be a help to you where ever you are in your life.


Your teen years are vital.

You will experience more pressure but “wrong is wrong even if everyone is doing it & right is right even if no one else is doing it”

Don’t be in a rush to date. Instead of trying to FIND THE RIGHT PERSON, (YOU) BE THE RIGHT PERSON.

God’s timing is always perfect. (Waiting time is not Wasting Time)

What you sow, you will reap.



Believe it or not, not everyone will be married by 30.

Don’t feel pressured to get married right away but at the same time, don’t feel pressured to make sure you are” COMPLETELY STABLE” before getting married. 

Stay in church. Many leave church because they look at other people instead of looking to the Savior and therefore become discouraged. 

Have good, godly friends that can help you grow spiritually. 


Marriage is from God. 


You will find out things you thought you already knew about your spouse but didn’t.

Your pet-peeves might be magnified during your first few years of marriage. 

Sex is not a horrible thing. God designed it for marriage.

You will have expectations for your spouse and sometimes those expectations will not be met – don’t let that be the reason you argue. Rather, be honest  and transparent with each other about what you expect from each other. 

NEVER compare your spouse to another person and that includes comparing them to your mother or father. 

You and your spouse are not two individual persons, but rather are ONE. What’s his is yours; What he struggles with, he will need your help to overcome; 

Marriage is putting two imperfect human beings together. Don’t expect each other to be perfect. Rather, strive to serve the Perfect God. 

Your spouse comes before your children. 


You are not promised another day with your child, so ENJOY THEM TODAY.

Your children are watching you and how they see you could greatly impact how they see Jesus.

Even if it doesn’t make sense, your children do NOT belong to you; the Lord has entrusted them to your care. 

Not everyone has the same opportunity (as you) to have children (some women are barren).

Be the kind of parent that your children can be honest with.

Your goal is not to be a perfect parent, but a “real” parent. Hypocrisy is something children hate.

If you want to be a great parent, be a good one first.

Be willing to admit you are wrong and ask for forgiveness whenever and every time it is necessary. 

Your parenting will reap great rewards or great sorrow. 

You will ultimately give an account for how you raised your children.



― Bil Keane said it best in this quote:

“Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, today is a gift of God,

which is why we call it the present.”

No matter how last year, last month, or last night turned out – you have today. You can start brand new with a clean slate. Don’t dwell on the past. Live today as if it were your last and make it count for eternity.


Until Next Time,

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Satisfaction in the Savior


Some people believe that KNOWING the Savior means having an “experience” that made them “see the light.” However, it takes more than just having a head-knowledge of Jesus. It is more than having an “experience” or a “moment” in your life when you “felt” that Jesus saved you; either from a disaster, an accident, or any other kind of bad situation.

To know the Savior means to have that personal relationship with Him. It is being able to say that YOU are HIS and HE is YOURS. You believe that He is YOUR CREATOR, YOUR MASTER, YOUR LORD, and YOUR HEAVENLY FATHER.  He’s the ONLY one in your life worth worshipping. He is the ONLY way to get to Heaven.


The Monthly Word Focus for March is “Satisfaction.”

We all struggle sometimes to be content or satisfied. We all have moments in our life when we want more; we desire more; we seek for more.  Sadly, many resort to sex, drugs, or alcohol to try to “get more” – to try to fill that gaping void in their heart and life.

Anyone who has ever done that can probably testify that that void was never filled PERMANENTLY. In fact, it cannot be filled with anything that this world has to offer.

There is a song entitled, “There is a Remedy.” (Lyrics included below)


“For the world that’s lost in darkness
For the saint who’s gone astray
For the sinner, blind but searching
For the child in need of faith
For the homeless and forsaken
For the hungry and the cold
For the prisoner and the captive
For the young and for the old

There is a remedy
For every sin-sick soul
There is a cure for all
All the pain and hurt and wrong
There is a solution
For all the problems deep inside
There is a remedy
And His name is Jesus Christ

For the bitter, for the lonely
For the weary and afraid
For the burdened and frustrated
The discouraged and dismayed
For the mocked and persecuted
For the battered, for the wronged
For the scarred and for the wounded
For the weak and for the strong

For every tribe and every nation
For every color, every race
For every tongue and every language
For every time and every place
There’s an answer to the questions
There is love for all the hate
There’s a healer for the dying
He’s the Light, the Truth, the way,”

Anyone reading these lyrics can probably admit that they fall into at least one of the categories mentioned. We’ve all been hurt; we’ve all been offended.; we’ve all been discouraged; we’ve all been afraid, lonely, or weary.  We’ve all felt weak and we are all different –  but the awesome truth is that there is an ANSWER, a HEALER, a REMEDY and His name is Jesus.

We don’t need to look at other people, fame, fortune, or even an occupation to be satisfied because those will never fully, permanently, and truly satisfy us.

TRUE SATISFACTION and LASTING SATISFACTION can only be found in knowing Jesus as your Savior.


Below are Bible Verses that can remind us that God is enough. He satisfies the longing soul and fills the hungry soul with goodness. I don’t know what all the “goodness” may be, but if it’s good, then why not, right?

Isaiah 58:11 – And the LORD shall guide thee continually, and satisfy thy soul in drought, and make fat thy bones: and thou shalt be like a watered garden, and like a spring of water, whose waters fail not.

John 6:35 – And Jesus said unto them, I am the bread of life: he that cometh to me shall never hunger; and he that believeth on me shall never thirst.

Proverbs 19:23 – The fear of the LORD tendeth to life: and [he that hath it shall abide satisfied; he shall not be visited with evil.

Psalms 145:16 – Thou openest thine hand, and satisfiest the desire of every living thing.

Psalms 107:9 – For he satisfieth the longing soul, and filleth the hungry soul with goodness.

Psalms 22:26 – The meek shall eat and be satisfied:


If you are searching for something more or if you are searching for meaning and purpose for your life…Friend, I am here to tell you that Jesus is the Answer. God loved the world so much that He sent His ONLY BEGOTTEN SON to die on the cross for you and for me. He is not willing that any should perish but that all should come to repentance. Asking Jesus to save you is as simple as singing your ABCs.

If that is a decision you would like to make today, please leave me a message and I would be overjoyed to show you from God’s Word how you can find SATISFACTION IN THE SAVIOR.



Until Next Time,

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Can you believe that 1/6th of this year is already done? Two months came and gone. Before we know it, high school and college graduations will be happening, Summer will be taking place, Christmas festivities will be transpiring, and 2018 will be another year to put in the books.

I am really excited about this month’s word focus because I have been doing a lot of self-evaluation on whether or not I am satisfied in various areas of my life.

If you were to “weigh” how satisfied you are with your life on a scale of 1-10, 1 being Completely Dissatisfied & 10 being Completely Satisfied, where would you fall?

True Satisfaction is not found in fame, fortune, or even your family. True satisfaction is found in the only Person that can fill the void that many of us once had and many others are still trying to fill.

We live in a culture where people try to find satisfaction in sex, wealth, popularity, drugs, alcohol, and other means that in the end come up short and just cause a lot of hurt and heartache.


For March, the Monthly Word Focus is SATISFACTION.

This month, I will focus on 3 Main Points:

I. Satisfaction in the Saviour
II. Satisfaction the Your Season of Life
III. Satisfaction in Your Service

The Bible says in Matthew 6:33, “But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.”

James 4:8 says, “Draw to God, and he will draw nigh to you.”

Some may be reading this and are struggling, dissatisfied, or just searching for more. May I encourage you continue seeking?

Continue seeking God.

Continue seeking for what your purpose is in life.

Matthew 7:7 says,  “Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you:”

If we don’t ask, we won’t receive.

If we don’t seek, we’ll never find out.

If we don’t knock, those doors will not be opened.

So join me this month as we focus on the word, SATISFACTION.


Until Next Time,

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4 Ways to Admire Your Family & Others (Feat. Special Guest)


For the month of February, the Monthly Word Focus is ADMIRATION. You can read more about that here.

How often do we hear the expression, “It was an accident!” or  how often have we actually been the ones to say that? I can honestly say that I’ve said it more times than I would like to admit. I understand that LIFE is not perfect nor are we perfect as humans. However, imagine how much different and better LIFE would be if we were intentional in our words and actions.

Being intentional will not always guarantee that all will be well, but if we had the mentality of DOING and SAYING things on PURPOSE, I believe we can save ourselves a lot of hurt and heartache. In this post, you will see four ways on how you can admire those closest to you. BEING INTENTIONAL and DOING THINGS INTENTIONALLY  is fundamental to doing the three others mentioned in this post.

I am excited to feature a special lady that I have admired since I started following her on Instagram. She stood out to me because of how real, honest, and loving she was to her spouse and children. And although social media does not prove EVERYTHING or how your life really is ALL THE TIME, her pictures have said a lot.


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Meghan lives with her husband and their 5 kids in Minneapolis, MN. She is expecting their 6th child in April 2018 and builds her businesses at home while homeschooling the kids. The family loves low key evenings at home and dinner around the table every night of the week. Meghan’s whole life mantra is “living for today” and shares that on her social media platforms to offer hope to others.

You can follow her on Instagram, @meghanjoytoday and her website,

I sent Meghan a few questions and I have been encouraged by her answers.


1) How are you as a wife and mom INTENTIONAL in your relationships?

When I am with certain people, I try to avoid any distractions that could be a hinderance (i.e. cell phone). When God lays on my heart to send a text to a friend, I do it. Sometimes someone will just pop into my head and heart and I’ll create a gift package to send them in the mail. I leave my schedule pretty wide open so that I have the capacity to be intentional in relationships. With my children, we try to make time for one-on-one dates so that we get to build on each relationship as a whole family as well as individually. With my husband, I’ll get that inkling like, “Meghan, just put your phone down and be WITH him, right now, in this space in time.” And I try to follow that urge and set all else aside to be with him. We also carve out most evenings to spend together after the kids go to bed.

2) How can we show INTIMACY with our children?

Letting them know that there is always a gate open to be vulnerable. Without judgment or condemnation, we want honesty and accessibility to reign. I’m continually telling the kids not to let their emotions be hindered or to ever have to feel they need to hide them from us but to open the door for that emotional intimacy to be seen and heard.

3) How do you show that you are INTERESTED in others?

I am an encourager at heart, so it’s very easy for me in that aspect. But also, often I fail at investing too much in others because I have to keep a balanced life. And so with having (almost) 6 children, a wonderful husband, homeschooling, housework, plus running multiple businesses from home, my capacity for much more is only so little. That being said, I strive for balance in all areas of life in order to show my concern and interest in others. Oftentimes, in conversations, I tell myself over and over again to just be quiet and listen. And often times, people have A LOT they want to say. And I want them to feel that someone is interested and thus be able to let it out, speak it, and be heard. So really, just listening can be a very good skill to learn.

4) How can you become more INVOLVED with your spouse & children & their interests?

By carving out time to do the things THEY love to do; even if that means sacrificing my own wants and needs. When I was dating my husband, I sat down and watched every basketball game with him. He loves basketball and it makes him happy to have me enjoy that with him. And to be honest, once I wooed him, captured him, and got that ring, I don’t think I’ve watched a single game with him in our almost 10 years of marriage. So sad, I know. I’m just being real. And maybe this was just the prompt I needed to make more of an effort in that area. (At least by sitting down next to him reading my book while he watches his game.) All that being said, it’s about sacrifice and putting others first, which I’m sure most of us can improve in.


It was a great privilege to have Meghan share her heart about how she ADMIRES or can continue to admire her spouse and children. She hit the sweet spot on answering these questions. These are great reminders to me and it would be selfish not to share them with you all! I sure hope you can get to know her even if it is just through this social media community. Please feel free to let her know how she has blessed or helped you.

Until Next Time,

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Welcome to this Month’s Word Focus – ADMIRATION!

Happy February!

We all admire something or someone. It can be a family member, a friend, or a Higher Being. It can be an item, something you possess, or even a place.

According to Webster’s 1828 Dictionary, admiration is wonder mingled with pleasing emotions, as approbation, esteem, love or veneration; a compound emotion excited by something novel, rare, great, or excellent;


We may not like to admit it but we can become complacent with those whom we see or associate with all the time; whether they be loved ones, co-workers, or friends, we can lose the “admiration” that we should be maintaining.

This February, I would like to encourage you all to join me as I focus on the word, ADMIRATION, mainly for God and for our families.

We live in a world and a society that is constantly criticizing or belittling God and the roles of fathers and mothers.

Many have lost the “wonder” of who God is, the “wonder” of who fathers and mothers should be, and the roles they were meant to partake in.


This month can sometimes be considered the “Love Month.”

Many go all out in honoring that special person or persons in their life. This month, I would like to encourage you in four different ways on how you can accomplish that.


Do things on purpose. Say things with purpose.


Be concerned with what you say, do, or think.


Be close, be near, be familiar. 


Be enveloped, be entangled, and be all wrapped up. 

I look forward to expounding on these four points this month and hope you come back and see how we can all be a part of this month’s word focus!


Until Next Time.

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Cultivating Financially

If you weren’t able to read my last post, I mentioned one of the top 10 resolutions people make for the new year and in this post I will be sharing another one of those resolutions from that top 10.

With the first month of 2018 almost coming to a close, I wanted to share how I have been “cultivating” financially for this month of January.

Also, in case you missed it, this year I started what is called a Monthly Word Focus. Each month, I plan on featuring a special lady who will talk about that specific word for the month. You can read more about it here and here.

No doubt, most if not all of us have been at the place where we might have worried about our finances. You may be reading this as you are currently in debt. Don’t worry, I’m there too. I have been reading Dave Ramsey’s book, “The Total Money Makeover” and I appreciate how he quickly addresses that the book is not a guide to “get rich quick.” So I am doing the same.

Please do not mistake what I share as something that will get you out of debt quickly or even make you rich… In fact, this post is definitely not about how to get rich so if that’s what you’re looking for, then you can just exit out of this page because I would hate to disappoint you.


Growing up, I didn’t have much. I was raised mainly by my dad from the time I was 5 since my mom and younger siblings stayed behind in the Philippines. It wasn’t until just a few years ago that they were able to come join us here in the states.

My older sister and I didn’t get allowances; we didn’t always have birthday parties; we didn’t receive a lot of presents during Christmas. But one thing is for sure, my dad made sure we were never hungry. In fact, my sister and I are petite so my dad would always try to overfeed us. NO JOKE! (Maybe that is how I got a good appetite!)

Getting money as a gift was a big deal to me. I made sure to make whatever was received last for as long as I could. I’m not the best with money but I can truly say that I have learned to make use with what I have and appreciate the little that I have.

Just like an average family, we have debt. We still have a car payment and loans to pay off. In addition, we have a growing family that we must continually feed and provide for, along with bills to pay So with this new year, our goal is not to pay off our debt completely, but to make sure that we are doing something about it.

Zig Ziglar said, “If you aim at nothing, you will hit it every time.” So with the paycheck that we’re provided, we are doing what we can to tackle this debt. I have come up with three ways that we can do so.


Yup! You read that correctly. As a lady, I find shopping to be therapeutic. (Just ask my husband!) Now, I don’t shop for clothes regularly because I just find it unnecessary. However, I am not judging you or looking down on you if you do. But for me, to shop for clothes on a monthly basis is a WANT, not a NEED. To be honest, it’s a luxury! So I have decided not to shop for clothes for the first 6 months of this year! (eeeeekkkk!) I have gone back and forth with myself and have debated on whether I should change it to just the first month or the first 3 months. BUT I HAVE DECIDED AND DETERMINED not to buy any clothes until after June of this year. (you can send your prayers right about now! haha!)


We live in world where we want things quickly and on-the-go. I am not against eating out. Sometimes, it is more convenient when you’re pressed for time. However, this year we have decided to not eat out for the first 3 months unless it is really, absolutely, no-other-choice necessary. We have been eating mainly from home and it’s been going well. I make a smoothie or two for my husband every week day, (weekends if necessary) just to reduce his temptation to buy a snack elsewhere.


As a married couple serving in full-time ministry, we can honestly say that living simply is a must. At the end of last year, we began getting rid of stuff – throwing unnecessary things and donating unneeded possessions. But how do we gauge what simple living really is? Does it mean that we live without a tv, or the newest gadget, or only have 10 tops in our closet? Honestly, simple living is different for everyone.

If you want to live simply, you must identify what is truly important to you and eliminate what isn’t important.

Some ways that I, Judylynn, have determined to live simpler this year are by:

        A) Canceling Unnecessary Subscriptions. It wasn’t until last week that I remembered my blog was on a business account but when I checked the price for the whole year, I knew that I had to cancel it. If one of my goals is to help tackle our debt this year, then I have to learn how to say “NO” to some things.

We have subscriptions to HULU and NETFLIX but we are planning on canceling our HULU subscription next month because it isn’t used as much as NETFLIX. (BTW, we don’t really watch regular tv shows).

We cancelled AMAZON prime because we rarely use that and it eliminates our temptation to buy things simply because of free and quick shipping. I’m sure there are more benefits from Prime, but for now, we have that cancelled.

        B) Rejecting Unnecessary Offers.  This can be a vague topic but we have all been at the place where we have had to say no. Saying “no” can honestly be a hard thing to do but also one of the best things you can do for yourself and your family. Too often, we get invited to go out to eat and although it can be flattering that people would like to spend time with us, we have had to think about what was more important and beneficial for us – our “want” for yummy food and fellowship or our “need” to eliminate our debt.

Some of our closest friends have memberships to the great attractions here in San Diego like the Zoo or Sea World, but we’ve also had to say “no” for this year since our priority is to make sure our family is on the right track financially.

In addition, being on social media and seeing story after story of people promoting a brand or having try-on sessions of their recent best buys can be quite tempting. But as I have mentioned before, I’ve determined and committed myself to do a clothes-shopping fast for the first half of 2018. (Anyone reading this can technically be my accountability partner.)


One important thing I haven’t expounded on or emphasized is the need for both husband and wife to be on the same page. If you are married, it is vital that you and your spouse are honest with each other and agree on the same goal. Failure to do so will can result in arguments, heartache, and possibly divorce. I have heard that financial problems is one of the top reasons why married couples get divorced.

Money is such a necessity but the LOVE OF MONEY is the root of all evil. 1 Timothy 6:10 says, “For the love of money is the root of all evil: which while some coveted after, they have erred from the faith, and pierced themselves through with many sorrows.” 

Money itself, is not evil but loving it to the point that it is your main focus in life can bring a lot of sorrow and ruin to you and your loved ones.

So friends, whether your goal is to get out of debt or get on the right track financially, three things you can do are:

1) Identify what is important to you.

2) Eliminate what isn’t important to you.

3) Start. (It’s not too late!) All it takes is just a decision to start.

The Lord has been so good in helping me apply the word of the month (Cultivation) and I look forward to sharing what February’s Word Focus is in just a few days!



Until Next Time,

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